Do not be afraid! Feel free to say things!
If you do not think like everyone else, tell him! Do not be like those people who, for fear of being rejected, being unpopular, is mostly silent and say the opposite of what they think. They prefer to return to the pan rather than expressing their true opinion.
Dare say you do not like children. Dare to say that you love watching Star Academy, even if you have 50 years. Dare say you do not like Christmas. Dare say you hate your parents -
Feel free to say things even if they are original ideas, unusual. Be honest with yourself. Do not especially ashamed of what you think. It is true that society increasingly condemns individuals who differ, who do not think like everyone else. The mistake would be to succumb to this social pressure. Each is different and does not feel things the same way.
Besides, why should your opinion be the worst? Especially since often those who think the same thing as you hide too, mostly.
If you think about such things is that you have good reason to do so. Events in your life you have certainly led to think that way. For example, if you do not like Christmas, this may be the result of bad childhood memories.
Dare to say that you suffer. Dare to say that you can not stand over your life. Dare to say you're an alcoholic -
Express yourself on you, you unveil, reveal your deepest feelings. The error does not make is to keep quiet. It is true that the company likes people who are smooth, clean on it ", smooth, no problems. But, talk! This will relieve you, as a first step. Then, putting words to your pain, you do the first step toward healing. Some people (not everyone) will be there to listen and help you overcome your discomfort.
From the moment you express yourself correctly and you say sensible things, there is no reason why you are silent. The others should be tolerant. Of course, tolerance works both ways. You also need to be tolerant and accept others' opinions. Understand that you hold may not be the truth.
Do not let anyone dictate to you what you think. Be strong and show everybody that you have personality. Do not fear the reproach that we could make. Be yourself, do not play a role. Do not hide your true nature.
Feel free to say things is the only way to feel aligned with yourself. You will walk through life with honesty and sincerity, qualities necessary for people to trust you and appreciate you.
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